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What makes females like or dislike sex and /or swinging?
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What makes females like or dislike sex and /or swinging? Over these last ten years I have been trying to coordinate social events to introduce couples to couples and sometimes singles to couples here in the small island Malta (europe) It's been a constant struggle for various socio-religious island issues. The main reasons seems to religious morality, the small community on the island where everybody practically knows eachother and fear. Fear of meeting someone you know from work or family and fear of being found out as a swinger publicly. Some do manage to work around these issues and have met us to get approved as a real active trusted swinger couples but some others who we know are real, have not made that step and decide to either swing abroad (away from our island's population as possible) or decide to swing only with visiting tourists so as to cut any local connection as much as possible. However, the most predominant issue in the local swinging scene is the lack of playing single females, reasons being as mentioned above. Something that really stands out to me is the shear amount of married males who would love their wife/partner to swing and can't get her to accept it. It's very rare to have the situation were the females wants to swing and the male is reluctant. during these last 10years I have met only three such cases. So I ask myself, why don't women want to have fun? what makes them really tick or un-tick into this lifestyle? I guess it's the multi-million dollar question...and who solves this riddle could very well become an instant millionaire (as the guy who invented Viagra, i guess) Some males say it's the , some say it's religious morality, some say it's fear of meeting people they know, some say it's fear of unwanted diseases, some say it's work & financial tensions, sadness/depression that reduces sexual desires in females..... the reasons are extremely varied i have observed. Some females i have asked say that after the second glass of wine everything seems ok!! so I ask myself is it the nerves? fear of performing in front of others? I am aware that this issue effects males more...the fear of performing or non-performing when in front of others! I have seen it and also experienced it myself. while it's not so nice to go through it, one must also accept it as a normal thing that could happen due to tiredness, excessive alcohol and or self-confidence. All these issues boil down to alot of males contacting me to ask advise how to get thier partner love sex and predominantly swinging. I am no authority in such a field but this underlines to me that many are sexually unhappy and many need sexual education as a couple if they want to survive together. |
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You'd have to understand well Maltese social-religious influence before trying to analyze Maltese female behavior towards sex. Lately i was convinced that the younger generation has gone past all these issues and that 28yr olds and young are now having fun like no other time in Maltese female history! Your comment about deceit is really not the right comment or observation to write on a swinger site! From experience i have known males and females who deceit the opposite sex or even their own sex at some point or other.
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